If it were released in any other year, L.A. Witch’s new Play With Fire would be the perfect album to blast through the car stereo with the wind in your hair while indulging in an adventure with your best pals. Unfortunately, summer 2020 has proved to be far from carefree, but while the trio’s nostalgia-tinged mix of indie rock, garage, punk, and country can twinge the heartstrings over what we’ve lost, a feel-good record like this can also remind us that it’s still possible to feel good.…Read More
Welcome to Family Feud, everybody. I’m your man Steve Harvey.
We have a special edition today. Two great families, the Trumps and the Bidens. Since neither side trusts the other to conduct a fair election, they’ve decided to come to the Feud. The winner is the President of the United States. There’s a lot on the line so let’s get started. Let’s play Feud. Give me Donald. Give me Joe!
Steve: Each question has only one answer. Here we go…Who will really run the country if Joe Biden is elected President?
Donald: Kamala Harris? BUZZ!!
Joe: Joe Biden? BUZZ!!
Melania: Antifa? BUZZ!!
Jill: Joe Biden!!
Steve: Okay….I see no one is going to get this. Let’s move on to question two. Give me Mike Pence! Give me Kamala! What state is most important if you want to win the election?
Mike: Because of the leadership of this President… BUZZ!!
Kamala: California? BUZZ!!!
Don Jr.: My dad… BUZZ!!
Steve: Hey Trumps….a state…Man, just name one of the fifty states!
Hunter: Ukraine?
Steve: I see this is going to be harder than I thought. We’re going to move on to play sudden death. Give Kellyanne! Give me George Conway! This is the final question. What do you call the sounds that come out of Donald Trump’s mouth?
Kellyanne: Alternative Facts? Buzz!! Buzz!! Buzz!!!
George: C’mon Kellyanne, we have to go and scam the public into thinking we’re this dysfunctional family so we can make more money.
Hunter: Mr. Trump, can you get me a job with the Trump organization? I’m as qualified as Eric! BUZZ!! BUZZ!! BUZZ!! BUZZ!! BUZZ!!!!!!!!
Steve: Enough! Enough! Enough! None of you should be anywhere near the White House. All of you get out of here now before I call the Secret Service. Bring on the next group. Two more great families. Here come the McConnell’s. Here come the Pelosi’s. Give me Moscow Mitch! Give me Crazy Nancy!
My so called friends think it’s time to edit this section. After four years, they may be right, but don’t tell them that. I’ll deny it until they die!
I can’t believe I’ve been writing this blog for four years.
It started as a health/wellness thing and over the years has morphed to include so many things that I don’t know how to describe it anymore.
I really thought this was going to be the final year of the blog but then Donald Trump came along. It looks like we’re good for four more years..God help us all!
Oh yeah…the biographical stuff. I’m not 60 anymore. The rest you can read about in the blog.
Our church held communion over Zoom. Pastor Joe was on-screen reading the Lord’s Supper. I had the fridge open, looking for some grape juice.
I couldn’t go too Catholic with actual wine. And orange juice feels disappointing without pancakes. So I continued scanning the shelves. My eyes finally locked on a mason jar full of raw farm-fresh milk. I glanced at a container of Oreos nearby. “I’m about to do this, aren’t I?”
I made sure my video was turned off. Waited for the cue. This is my body, this is my blood. The fill-in bread was an Oreo, the wine a glass of milk. I dunked the Oreo and committed either the most innovative or most profane version of Covid-19 communion.
The Sacred and the Profane
A glass of milk has always straddled the line between sacred and profane. Especially here in America, we can’t seem to agree if milk is either the best thing or the worst thing for us.
Those in favor of milk point to its life-giving qualities. A baby is breastfed long before their first glass of ice water. Healthwise, milk is rich in calcium and vitamins. Makes us stronger by building our bones and our Midwestern character.
Milk is even motivational. How did Moses inspire the Israelites? I have promised to bring you up out of your misery in Egypt into a land flowing with MILK and honey.’ Or remember how our English teacher passionately explained the ending scene of Grapes of Wrath? Rose of Sharon breastfed a stranger, saved him from starvation, and three classmates woke up by the chalkboard. “Wait, what happened at the end?”
Those opposed to milk go right to their bread and (non-dairy) butter argument: “It’s not natural. We are the only mammals who drink another mammal’s milk. Plus, lactose is terrible on the body. And don’t even get me started on raw, non-pasteurized milk.”
These anti-milkers flooded the market with milk alternatives. Started with lactose-free then expanded to things like oat milk, almond milk, coconut milk. How they found the udder on a cashew is beyond me. Nowadays, there are more types of milk in the grocery store than flavors of Oreos. And all of this has led, in part, to the recent bankruptcies of former dairy giants like Dean Foods and Borden Dairy.
What was surprising to me – as I began milking this research for all its worth – was just how long milk has been part of human society. The story of milk begins 10,000 years ago in what was then called The Fertile Crescent region of the Middle East. This land was south of the Black & Caspian seas containing parts of modern-day Egypt, Jordan, Israel, Syria, Iraq, and Iran. This was the main setting for most of the Bible’s Old Testament.
The First Dairy Cow
The “OG” dairy cow was called the Auroch, a name that sounds right at home in a Lord of the Rings movie. Aurochs were the size of bison with two massive horns. They roamed the earth for two million years before we started the domestication process. The resulting breeds of domestic cattle from the Aurochs were the humped Zebu (Bos indicus) and the humpless European Highland cattle (Bos taurus). And I will end the cow genealogy right here because I can actually feel the yawns as I’m typing this sentence.
The first dairy cow may have been 8,000 – 10,000 years ago, but it wasn’t until 3,000 BC when dairy began playing a major role in human society. This gap in time is similar to when Al Gore first invented the internet in the mid-1970s vs. the high-speed internet today capable of Zoom communion.
Archaeological evidence shows that the Ancient Sumerians drank cow’s milk and also made cheeses and butters. Ancient Mesopotamia was essentially the first Wisconsin. Scientists point to a genetic mutation around this time called lactase persistence that allowed us to consume milk without getting sick.
But let’s go ahead and hit the fast forward button from 3,000 BC to the year 1,100. There weren’t many major milk moments until the arrival of the Guernsey cow, which can properly be described as the Michael Jordan of dairy.
Guernsey Milk
Mont-Saint-Michel is a tidal island off the Northwestern Coast of France. The land itself looks like a miniature version of Old Mission Peninsula up in Northern Michigan. It’s a tourist destination for the incredible views and this massive old cathedral pictured above, one that Ben Affleck and Olga Kurylenko walk around in Terrence Malick’s film, To the Wonder.
What’s so different or special about this cow? First, the coloring. These aren’t the traditional black and white cow you think of when picturing a dairy cow or a Chick-Fil-A commercial. They look more like the Texas Longhorns mascot. The color of the milk is different too, it’s more of a yellow. Health-wise, Guernsey milk contains 12% more protein, 30% more cream, 33% more vitamin D, 25% more vitamin A and 15% more calcium than average milk.
Also, 96% of Guernsey cows carry the protein Beta Casein A2 in their milk. There is some anecdotal evidencethat this protein MAY be better for the health of some people than the Protein Beta Casein A1 that is found in most other glasses of milk.
Coming to America
So we’ve got the Guernsey cows off on a remote island. The cows are training, fine-tuning their milk, being led by a group of monks. They’re kind of like Luke Skywalker training with Yoda. The Guernsey milk, arguably the best on the planet, won’t be shared with the rest of the world until the 1700s.
Let’s head back, then, to the main milk timeline. Picking things up in 1525. From here, we’ll kind of go rapid-fire through history taking us all the way to present day 2020.
“The first cattle to arrive in the New World landed in Vera Cruz, Mexico, in 1525. Soon afterword, some made their way across the Rio Grande to proliferate in the wild. They became known as ‘Texas Cattle.’
Some of the [Spanish] settlers transported cattle to South America from the Canary Islands and Europe. More followed, and cattle multiplied rapidly throughout New Spain, numbering in the thousands within a few years.”
1600s – Death of the Auroch
In the early 1600s, the Aurochs, aka the OG Dairy Cow, officially went extinct. People all around the world poured out a glass of milk to the granddaddy of them all and the world’s cows observed a short mooment of silence.
I’m deeply ashamed of that pun, but not quite enough to delete it.
1700s – Milk as Medicine?
You ever hear someone say, “If you’re sick, just put an onion in your bedroom, it’ll help.” Or if you have a sore throat, gargle with saltwater. These types of wive’s tales/folk tale medicinal practices have always been around and whether it’s correlation vs. causation, placebo vs. science, I find myself still believing a lot of them.
One of these observations back in 18th century Europe was that milkmaids (women who milked cows) seemed to be immune from the smallpox plagues sweeping through Europe. In 1796, English physician Edward Jenner developed a vaccine for smallpox based upon this folklore knowledge.
“Recognizing that dairymaids infected with cowpox were immune to small-pox, Jenner deliberately infected James Phipps, an eight-year-old boy, with cowpox in 1796. He then exposed Phipps to smallpox-which Phipps failed to contract. After repeating the experiment on other children, including his own son, Jenner concluded that vaccination provided immunity to smallpox.”
In the United States, the first smallpox vaccination took place in 1799 from Valentine Seaman, who used a “serum acquired by Edward Jenner.”This was, perhaps, the biggest healthcare win for the pro-milk camp in all of history.
1800s – Louis Pasteur: Some Say Hero, Others Say Villain
In the 19th century, the alcohol distillery business in the United States was starting to grow and several of the big ones are still around today (Anheuser Busch: 1852. Jack Daniels: 1866. Coors: 1873). During this time of rapid growth, large amounts of swill (spent-grains) were produced as a byproduct of whiskey and other alcohol production. Many distilleries opened dairies and began feeding their dairy cows with the waste swill. There wasn’t much nutrition in the swill which led to sickness in the cows and, in turn, to the people who drank this low-quality milk.
“Confined to filthy, manure-filled pens, the unfortunate cows gave a pale, bluish milk so poor in quality, it couldn’t even be used for making butter or cheese.” (Milk Pro Con – History of Milk)
This was the historical backdrop for the original health foods celebrity, Louis Pasteur, to begin his most famous work.
In the early 1860s, Louis Pasteur was already riding high from his discovery of how yeast works. Before then, no one knew exactly how:
Yeast feeds on the starches in flour, producing carbon dioxide
Ccarbon dioxide expands the gluten proteins in the flour
Gluten proteins cause the dough (of which flour is a main ingredient) to expand and rise
This discovery led to modern yeast vs. the old school breads (like sourdough) that rely on a starter. In this way, modern yeast is kind of like the HGH/steroids of baking. The result was the rise of white bread creation and sales in the late 1800s and it’s why, for the pro-sourdough camp, Pasteur is a bit of a villain.
Pasteur patented the process and put his name right on it, calling it “Pasteurization.” The first use of pasteurization was for wine and then it was applied to beer and milk. By 1895, pasteurized milk was the standard, mainly to fight milk-borne illnesses. In 1899, there was the invention of the milk homogenizer. This process further altered the natural milk, preventing the cream from separating and rising to the top.
Illnesses did go down, but one detail that gets lost in the story was the terrible nutrition these cows were receiving. If a cow is eating nothing but swill and confined to a manure-filled pen, did it ever really have a chance to produce high-quality milk? And would pasteurization be needed if the cow had a better environment?
1900s – The Milk Battle Intensifies
We’ll buzz through these headlines real quick, but the main narrative of the 20th century for milk was 1) Pasteurization was king, there should be no other alternative, and 2) Everybody loved milk. From glasses of milk with Oreos to bowls of cereal to school lunch cartons, milk was riding high and beloved by all.
1913 – Typhoid epidemic in New York City. Attributed to contaminated milk
1917 – Pasteurization required unless cows are proven to be without tubercluosis
1946 – 1/2 to 2 pints of whole milk required with the newly passed National School Lunch Act
1993-95 – Got Milk campaign launched. Milk mustache on famous athletes and celebrities. Might have been peak milk popularity
1998 – The raw milk campaign began. Fighting back against the pasteurized attacks
2007 – Sale of raw cow’s milk was illegal in 17 states
2000s – Back to the Basics
Milk’s momentum carried over into the 21st century. In 2001, Dean Foods had 25,000 employees.
In 2005, the USDA suggested three cups a day of fat-free or low-fat milk products
But by 2015, dairy milk sales start to decline. We started to see the rise of milk alternatives.
And here in 2020, Borden and Dean Foods both filed for bankruptcy, signaling what might be the end of the mega-milk era. From the CNN article:
“The company said it also has been hurt by broader industry trends, including a 6% drop in overall US milk consumption since 2015. Borden noted that more than 2,700 family dairy farms went out of business last year, and 94,000 have stopped producing milk since 1992.”
So if the big guys can’t make it work, and the little family farms are struggling, what does the future of milk look like? Are we at the end of a several thousand-year story? Will we ever see the popularity of the 1990s?
In Part 2, I’d like to take you to a place in Dundee, Illinois called All Grass Farms. Our story will pick up on a Saturday morning with a line of people at least 10-15 strong. Looks like a line awaiting church communion. Almost everyone has an empty mason jar and a cooler. They’re about to fill up on the best Guernsey milk this side of Normandy.
Over the last several months, I’ve been using the Medium Rare blog in a different format, featuring local restaurants and businesses around Chicago. These can also drift into a little bit of philosophy and stories from my own life + a historical deep dive like what you got today. To catch up on some of the posts and read about great local spots, here they are below:
I was born and raised in Midland, Michigan and moved here to Chicago a couple years ago after graduating from Hope College. I live in the city with my beautiful wife Ashley.
A little bit about me – I go to bed early, I enjoy greasy food and would wear sweatpants everyday if I were allowed to. I just signed up for a year-long Divvy membership, but could very well be the slowest bicyclist in Chicago.
I write the Medium Rare blog and will have a new post up every Monday.
Sia is a gorgeous, sweet, gentle and shy six-month-old, blue-eyed Siamese kitten looking for a loving guardian.
Sia rubs against you, licks your hand, but gets nervous at times and hides. She lets you hold her in your arms and she gets along just find with other cats.
She is very well-behaved in the home, uses her litter box and is an indoor-only cat.
Sia was being fed in a family’s backyard in a feral colony. She was trapped, but while shy, she is not feral.
She is spayed, has all her claws. She is vaccinated for rabies and distemper, microchipped and dewormed.
To meet and possibly adopt Sia, please contact [email protected] for an adoption application.
Her adoption fee of $175 benefits the Friends of Petraits Rescue. She is being fostered in Chicago.
1000 W. Washington Blvd., No. 541, Chicago: $995,000 | Listed Aug. 12, 2020 (Positive Image)
Combining sleek minimalism with relaxed urban touches like exposed brick and rustic wood beams, this 1,700-square-foot West Town home has two bedrooms and two bathrooms. The open living space is anchored by a structural gas fireplace and includes a kitchen featuring Bosch and Samsung stainless steel appliances, along with a sleek quartz island. The penthouse features a 600-square-foot private outdoor terrace complete with a fire pit and built-in seating. Garage parking and additional storage is included.
Two things have kept me busy in the past few months: new employment and Star Trek. Reengaging with past Star Trek series (mostly Deep Space Nine and Enterprise) has reminded me how much the franchise has affected my life as well as inspired several Star Trek-themed blog posts). So I came across The Klingon Art of War(not an affiliate link), I was curious about whether it would be a similar-themed leadership guide for nonprofits and social enterprise as Wess Roberts’ Make It So: Leadership Lessons from Star Trek: The Next Generation.
Although it is less didactic than Make It So, Star Trek – The Klingon Art of War functions as a smart, savvy reworking of Sun Tzu’s The Art of War. Organized into ten “principles” with related stories, Klingon Art of War serves less as a practical leadership guide and more of a metaphorical exploration into leadership strategy. (In fairness, author Keith R.A. Candido’s intention was focused on highlighting Klingon history and lore, not focusing on business leadership). However, recontextualizing Sun Tzu’s theories through a Klingon perspective provides an easier way to understand. (Especially given the high prevalence of “honor” in Klingon society which could easily be translated into “integrity” in our present times).
Even for those working remotely (like me) and dealing with COVID-19 related issues, The Klingon Art of War provides some strong ideas about personal conduct. Despite harsh-sounding phrases like “Choose Your Enemies Well” and “Always Die Standing Up”, Star Trek – The Klingon Art of War promotes a positive, straightforward approach to handling matters. Even the book’s main narrative conceit – a Klingon scholar describing his reaction to these stories – provides insight into how text can be interpreted and misinterpreted. As much as Sun Tzu’s The Art of War focused on strategy and winning every battle, Star Trek – The Klingon Art of War focuses on personal integrity and perceptions of situations. Although it isn’t a substitute for other resources, Star Trek – The Klingon Art of War provides a metaphorical exploration of living with integrity.
For Star Trek fans, The Klingon Art of War also provides some great background on Klingon culture and society within the series. Several appendices explain Klingon weapons, a practical application of Klingon principles, and understanding a historical context. Although it may seem frivolous to give meaning to tie-in literature, Star Trek – The Klingon Art of War cannot help but feel appropriate during this time. With several Star Trek series attempting to deconstruct Trek lore, The Klingon Art of War (published in 2014) reconstructs Klingon lore into a great mix of insightful tie-in literature and practical guide.
I highly recommend Star Trek – The Klingon Art of War for nonprofit and social enterprise leaders, Star Trek fans, and people looking for an entertaining diversion.
For now, though, I am now considering taking Klingon language lessons thanks to this book.
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Who is winning the war in you? Is it your overweight or heavyweight self? Are you having bad news for breakfast with a glass of doubt? Are you snacking on fear and negativity throughout the day and digesting stress, anxiety and worry for dinner? Watch what you eat!
You can control your diet. You can have the body you desire if only you choose what you chew on. To lose the weight that this world and life brings, try nibbling on positivity, hope, trust, and faith which will lead to peace. We have absolutely no control over things happening around us and sometimes to us, but we can control whether or not to ingest it. Watch what you eat! Trouble and problems will surely come, but we can strategically allow issues to build our muscles so that we become heavyweight champions. If you’re going to carry weight, you may as well work it out to your advantage and not allow it to bog you down. If you’re overweight, find your personal trainer of life to help prepare healthy meal plans suitable for your body type and to encourage you to turn down plates of hopelessness until you reach your goal weight and become a heavyweight to be reckoned with.
Lefties have been problem for the Cubs in 2020. The Cubs hitters have failed to produce against left-handed pitchers (84 wRC+), while their own staff has failed to retire left-handed batters. The front office used the days leading up to the trade deadline yesterday adding options to try and resolve those issues.
First, the full accounting:
CF Cameron Maybin acquired for IF Zack Short
LHRP Andrew Chafin acquired for PTBNL/Cash
LHRP Josh Osich acquired for PTBNL/Cash
Over the weekend:
DH Jose Martinez acquired for two PTBNL
Veteran RHRP A.J. Ramos signed to Minor League deal and sent to South Bend
The Maybin deal is pretty straightforward. Albert Almora Jr. has been a disaster at the plate since the middle of 2018 and the team could simply wait no longer. Maybin isn’t exactly an offensive stalwart, and doesn’t help much against lefties (85 wRC+), but considering the guy he is replacing has managed an overall wRC+ of 64 and 35 the past two years, Maybin becomes a welcome addition. Almora managed to hold on to his 40-man spot, the team decided to DFA Ian Miller instead, but he was optioned to South Bend to make room on the active roster. With Ian Happ breaking out as the everyday centerfielder I don’t expect Maybin to get a ton of starts. Maybin does give the team the option of switching Happ to one of the corner spots more often should the need arise though.
Martinez is the guy who figures to get the most playing time of all the acquisitions. He is going to DH against all left-handed starters, and if he gets hot he could get some starts against righties as well. The former Cardinal is a true lefty masher (.320 career AVG, 153 wRC+) who will also offer the Cubs a prime option off the bench when facing guys like Josh Hader late in games. He is a bit of a disaster in the field, but he has experience in the corner outfield, but I’m not sure I want him playing anywhere other than first base.
The addition of those two, plus the imminent returns of Kris Bryant and Steven Souza Jr., the Cubs should receive a boost against southpaws over the remainder of the season. There are still enough questions where I don’t believe the issue is fixed, but I think they now have enough where they can at least be competitive in games against good lefties.
Of the two lefty relievers the Cubs acquired Andrew Chafin has been by far the more successful over the course of his career. His xFIP has never strayed outside the 3.00-4.00 range in his six years as a reliever. His ERA is an unseemly 8.10 in a very small sample size in 2020, and he is currently on the IL, but apparently his stuff hasn’t declined this year. He throws a 93-94 mph fastball and pairs it with a solid slider. Chafin has proven he can get outs in the Majors and he has proven he can miss some bats. Both are desperately needed from the left side of the Cubs pen. There is definitely some risk because of the current injury and poor early results this year, but for the nominal cost the Cubs paid, Chafin is well worth the risk.
The deal for Osich is a bit more perplexing. Again, the cost was essentially nothing, but he is a guy who has never had consistent success in the Majors despite ample opportunity. He is missing more bats so far this season (28.6 K%) than he ever has, but his ERA is still above 5.00 (although his xFIP is a more seemly 3.49). Maybe he’s been a little unlucky this season (most of the damage to his ERA seems to stem from ne bad outing). He’s developed a cutter over the last year or so which has helped him, and he at least provides some competition for Kyle Ryan as a potential second lefty to pair with Chafin.
It is really difficult to assess what they have in A.J. Ramos. He hasn’t pitched in the Majors since tearing his labrum in 2018. He was with the Dodgers until recently being granted his release. Reports are he’s looked good, but we’ll see. He joins the army of other right-handed relievers battling for a chance in South Bend. What could separate Ramos above the rest though is his changeup. It was his best pitch before the injury, and it was effective against left-handed hitters.
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Adidas Track suit
Adidas remains a classic street wear brand, and we can never get enough. Here, the Heath Dolls are rocking the classic red two piece track suit with the signature stripes down the pant and jacket. We added a khaki colored vest for a high fashion flair reminiscent of the way actress/singer Zendaya wore in the photo below. Let us know what you think of this look!
Shirt Dress
Orange seems to be a top color pick of the Summer and we can see why! The Heath dolls are not afraid to take risks with fashion and here they did just that. To accomplish this look, we turned a boys dress shirt into a to die for shirt dress channeling the beautiful singing artist Ciara! For the belt, we cut mommy’s black infinity belt in half and each took a side. We completed the look with black calf boots. Tell us in the comments if you think we nailed it!
Tie Dye
Tie Dye for the win! Everywhere you turn your head these days you see this old school yet fun pattern. From A list celebs like Kylie Jenner to babies at daycare it’s being rocked. Here The Heath Dolls recreated a fun red and neutral two piece Tie Dye set rocked by Kylie Jenner. To pull off this look, we had to think outside the box. We turned what was once a two piece pant set into a skirt set in less than 5 minutes! To create the banded top we wrapped the pants around our top half and pinned into place. The original long sleeve shirt was worn as the skirt. To hide the arms we tied them around the back to make a cute bow. We loved how this cane out. Let us know what you think!
Oversized Coveralls
Let’s face it, when it comes to street wear coveralls are at the top of the list especially oversized ones. The Heath Dolls recreated the talented artist Tiana Taylor’s Look worn at her recent album release party. In fact, not only did she rock the look all her guest did as well. Let us know what you think of this recreation in the comments.
By The Ultimate Circle Table Kid,
Tuesday at 1:16 pm
I am a firm believer in God. I believe he works in unpredictable ways and as much as talking about religion can result in controversy, I feel as though writing about my faith in God is a very healthy way to stay connected to God and may even connect some other believers to my writing.
As of a few days ago, I am officially a college student. I just moved into my single dorm at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee and these past few days have been nothing like I thought they would be. For starters, it’s been a lot harder to make friends than I originally thought. Not saying this is the case for every new college student. In fact, as I’ve been walking around campus, it appears as though most people have already found their posse. I didn’t necessarily think that moving to campus was going to result in a flock of people swarming around me desperate to be my friend, however, in a sense, I did think that. Mostly because these past few months leading up to moving away all anybody could seem to say about it is that college is the best place to meet people. Hell, studies show that most marriages and lifelong friendships derive from meeting on campus and college roommates!
But for me, I’m not what you consider a social butterfly. I say hi to the wrong people in the elevator and I put oreos on my roommates beds crossing my fingers they’ll invite me to a party. As far as trying to meet people, I wouldn’t say I’ve gone above and beyond and really put myself out there but I also can’t say I haven’t tried. The truth is, these past few days haven’t really been all about meeting people, partying (which I have no desire due to the pandemic), or anything sociable for that matter. I’ve found that these past few days have taught me an independence I never thought I had.
For you downtown Chicagoans, this’ll sound like a piece of cake. But for a suburbs girl who’s never gone without a car, a meal, or 24/7 parental surveillance, being on my own and walking hours to get to places has really helped me realize how appreciative I’m becoming and how much more rounded I still need to become.
I must admit, these past four days, I didn’t really like my roommates. The two of them have been stuck like glue ever since they met a few days ago and I just feel like the weird girl they secretly hate that lives in the single room. When they first moved in, I tried breaking the ice with them, but there was a sense of extreme awkwardness to our conversation. So I left it at that. I felt as though even after the oreos, buying them batteries, and helping them move furniture, they just didn’t want to be my friend. So I have been shutting them out. Until this morning after an awkward bathroom encounter (because the three of us share a bathroom) I felt encouraged to ask if they ever wanted to hangout. And to my surprise, they said they’re having just as hard of a time meeting people as I am. With that being said, we’re going to have a movie night. This is where I believe God comes in. I prayed that I’d meet someone today. And sometimes the answer is right in front of you.
Today won’t feel so hopeless as I walk a half hour to walgreens.
I’m an 18 year old from the suburbs, trying to figure out where I fit in. Writing has always been my favorite way to relieve stress and speak my mind. It’s not easy being an old soul in this generation of people who care so much about the superficial things . Instead of being crashed on the couch after a long night of partying you’ll find me in bed by 9, preparing to wake up at 4am the next day ready to chase the sunrise…and it’s taken me eighteen years to realize that’s not lame…that’s effin’ awesome!
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