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Finding love on Instagram LiveS. Nicole Laneon June 25, 2020 at 11:30 am

I love love. As a serial monogamist and someone who regularly writes about sex, I can’t help but gravitate towards the topic in all areas of my life. It’s relatable, it’s common, it’s exceptional, it’s simple, it’s so fucking hard. With more than 90,000 singles living in Chicago, it’s tough dating in the Windy City. Earlier this year the Reader relaunched our Reader Matches in hopes of regaining a classic–and sometimes successful–approach to dating. Using words and text, folks can express their emotions the old-fashioned way. So when I saw Julia Arredondo’s project, COVIDtv CONNEX, I was immediately smitten.

The Humboldt Park-based artist has been working with live infomercials since the end of 2019, introducing viewers to underrepresented artists with her Columbia College thesis project QTVC Live! on Instagram Live. Existing in the way that late-night TV shopping channels do, QTVC is a way for DIY Chicago to sell and advertise their work on video. Once the pandemic hit, Arredondo started COVIDtv, which is even more virtual. The artists introduce their work on their own Instagram and Arredondo coordinates the event. COVIDtv CONNEX is a special event highlighting dating profiles where folks apply, pay for ad space on a sliding scale of $2 to $10, go live with a 15-minute video, and wait for the love letters in their DMs. All proceeds will go to the Honeycomb Network, an LGBTQ coworking space founded by a Boricua queer woman in Humboldt Park.

Arredondo says she’s not on any dating apps. “That’s not how I meet people. I meet people at the train stop. I meet people really organically.” So staying stuck in her home has made dating in isolation a little difficult–something we’re now all too familiar with. “I’ve been using social media professionally for at least five years now. Five to ten years depending on which interface we are talking about,” says Arredondo. “Social media is a part of my communicative process and how I disseminate my work.”


Arredondo has always wanted to be a matchmaker. “Love has always been one of my favorite subjects to write about and to read about. I am recently totally single since living in Chicago. I’ve been thinking about what I want in a relationship. I want that partnership!” In a 15-minute window, folks discuss their needs, wants, personality traits, dislikes, zodiac signs, and sense of humor. What we can’t see on a dating app through texting, we hear in the person’s voice, in their actions, and we understand who they are. Where texting leaves dead air, these video dating profiles brazenly present the person.


I tuned in to COVIDtv CONNEX on Sunday–Arredondo made a flyer with a schedule from noon until 6 PM. The broadcast wasn’t just back-to-back dating profiles but also included blissful lovers sharing their story and being interviewed by Arredondo. A live painting session with Jaqui Arte (@artejaqui) kicked off the day where viewers could watch the artist paint corazoncito paintings, which are religious motifs found in Mexican folk art, as well as discuss healing practices and working through trauma. The first dating profile included a participant sitting outside in a butterfly garden. They explained their wants and their expectations in a partnership. “I’m not looking for something casual,” they explained through a forthright live video. Couple Manny and Risa (@bigcitybug and @manny_suena) had viewers swooning over their 19-year relationship, which they discussed in an unscripted way. “We orbit each other,” said Manny. “But we don’t crowd each other,” said Risa. Just being with one another and enjoying each other has made their love last. Another dating profile featured a teacher in Little Village who is a proud “super lesbian.” For 15 minutes, each participant decided what and how much to share, with little dead air. Some folks had a more scripted bio, whereas others went on tangents–one participant showed us the lamb meatballs they had just cooked. Overall, the folks were incredibly transparent and vulnerable. It’s brave to go live on Instagram. It’s even braver to discuss your fears and desires.


Arredondo recalls the matchmaking service that came to her high school, where students could pay $5 to be matched up with another single. “I think it’s fascinating!” she says. However, finding participants has been challenging for COVIDtv. “Maybe it’s the willingness to be vulnerable in that way. Because I’m ready for that challenge in a big way.” She goes on to say, “I don’t know if people are comfortable talking about love as publicly as they were at some point. We can talk about sex but not love.” On dating apps, folks can remain somewhat private. They choose to display images of themselves that are the most attractive, most adventurous, and most alluring, whereas a live video is a form of reality of who the person is. Straightforward. No frills. And with the digital age, we consume photos with a quick thumbs up or a thumbs down. We judge dating app users, or Instagram profiles, by a curated selection of images. Talking on camera for 15 minutes is a refined Tinder bio. After dating participants go live on their Instagram COVIDtv CONNEX, they can keep their video up for 24 hours and folks can direct message if they are interested in connecting.

Alas, I’m aware that love can’t always be patient and kind. Arredondo knew that vulnerable online experiences may invite trolls to doxx in the comment sections. Before airing, Arredondo e-mails a safety note to all participants that includes certain measures that could create a safe Internet environment. She suggests that each participant have their own moderator (including Arredondo), pre-block any ex-lovers or bosses, readjust sharing activity, and refrain from discussing private information. Nevertheless, participants Gabe and Laura experienced racist and transphobic harassment during their broadcast in the comment section. Arredondo writes on Instagram, “Not only was it distracting, but there was something particularly scary about it. It felt bad. To be visible in the world without much worry is a privilege. To be visible on the Internet without much worry is a luxury. I know trans folks are targeted regularly in this country, but it didn’t register to me that even the Internet is not safe. How do we prevent this behavior from perpetuating? How do we protect?”

In an e-mail sent to me later that night, she asked, “Is the public conversation about love only reserved for gender normative folks?” These participants are being vulnerable on the same platform where bigots choose to invade, pillage, and do harm. How do we define safe space and how can we protect folks for future incidents? All types of dating models produce unique repercussions for visible marginalized people. In “Enabling Online Safe Spaces: A Case Study of Love Matters Kenya,” Maaike van Heijningen and Lindsay van Clief write that controlling safe spaces online is difficult and has its advantages and disadvantages. “While we acknowledge that online spaces are inherently complex and paradoxical, we must also remember that they are emerging spaces (Rosenfeld and Noterman 2014). Safe spaces, both inclusive and separative, are necessary when people feel they have no voice in society or a safe place where they can share their experiences. They are an important and useful means of minimizing the risk that voices are not heard.”


This is the first round of dating profiles through COVIDtv CONNEX, and new participants can sign up for next weekend’s slot airing on 6/28–apply here to submit your 15-minute video before that date (slots are limited). No matter your relationship situation, there is complete joy that comes from watching the dating profiles and couple’s advice segments. Hearing about what people want from love and hearing from people who are living with love is charming and inspiring. I felt a special sort of love for my partner on Sunday, hoping that we can grow like Edra Soto and Dan Sullivan and taking immense advice from Rebecca Soto and David Alvarado. It’s unique to see partnerships so unabashedly displayed and to love your loved one out loud.


Arredondo wants her platforms to grow in the future. She hopes to eventually work with folks who can help with editing, scheduling, organizing, and design. She explains that the idea of building a team is also tied into her search for a partner. “I want my lover to be a part of my team. Let’s fucking build together. That’s why being public on social media, for me, isn’t a problem. That’s my goal is to build that team.” v

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11 Chicago Spas That Are Reopening for Massages, Facials & Body TreatmentsLindsey Congeron June 23, 2020 at 9:03 pm

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As of the beginning of the month, Chicago officially moved into Phase 3, which means that nonessential businesses, including spas, can reopen. But of course, business cannot continue as usual, and there are various restrictions in place, including social distancing measures, reduced number of people inside at once, and the requirement of masks. 


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If you have been waiting for the day for spas to reopen to help you melt away the stress of the pandemic, you’re in luck! These Chicago spas are either already open or will be reopening very soon. 

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Spa Space

161 N Canal St, Chicago, 60606

Spa Space is hoping to reopen the first week of July. Check out their website to see some of the services they offer, including facials, massages, manicures, waxing, and more. You can also choose to purchase a gift certificate now to support the business. 

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Spavia 

2121 N Clybourn Ave, Suite A5, Chicago, 60614

Spavia is open, but due to regulations, they might not be able to provide all of their usual services. They offer massages, waxing, skincare, and body treatments for both men and women.  

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Sir Spa

5151 N Clark, Chicago, 60640

Sir Spa is a spa dedicated to men and is taking several precautions to ensure everyone stays safe. You must wear a face mask prior to service and take a COVID-19 questionnaire, and facials and use of locker room, showers, and steam room are all unavailable. 

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Renee Day Spa

233 E Erie Ave #710, Chicago, 60611

Some of Renee’s monthly specials including bundles for a European facial and Swedish massage or a European facial, Swedish massage, and classic massage. 

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Hand and Stone Massage and Facial Spa 

1130 S Michigan Ave, Suite B, Chicago, 60605

If you are a first-time customer, you can take advantage of some of the introductory offers they have. Some of the options include facials, full-body massages, aromatherapy, hair removal, and exfoliations and peels. 

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Tres Jolie

901 W 18th Street, Chicago, 60608

Tres Jolie is a full-service medical aesthetic spa located in Pilsen. There, you can get services like the following: Laser hair removal, chemical peels, facials, botox and fillers, home skin care, and laser skin treatments.

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Spa Soak Chicago

1733 N Milwaukee Ave, Chicago, 60647

This Bucktown/Wicker Park spa reopened at the beginning of the month. A mask is required if you want to take care of their treatments, which are all custom blended with essential oils, vitamins and minerals, and plant extracts to fit your needs best. 

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Dita Day Spa

58 E Walton St, Chicago, 60611

Located in the Goldcoast, Dita Day Spa includes massages, facials, body treatments, and waxing. 

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Saraya Salon and Spa

73 E 16th Street, Chicago, 60616

This South Loop spa is open backed up again, and some of their options include oil scalp treatments, Brazilian blowouts, waxings, split end treatments, and more!

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Verde

905 W 18th Street, Chicago, 60608

Verde has been open since June 10th for services. Located in Pilsen, you can get massage treatments, but you can also attend classes on how to improve your posture. 

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Lincoln Park Massage

630 Webster Ave, Chicago, 60614 

They are open for business and are offering a spa promotion for $59 for a 60 deep tissue or Swedish massage with free hot stone as well. Or, you can also choose between body treatments like facials, aromatherapy body scrub, and more. 

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13 Chicago Restaurants Opening for Indoor Dining This WeekendNishat Ahmedon June 24, 2020 at 8:25 pm

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Chicago restaurants are officially opening for indoor dining starting this Friday, June 26th, and we couldn’t be more excited! With Illinois officially in Phase 4 of recovery from the coronavirus pandemic, gatherings of 50 people or fewer are allowed, which means restaurants around the city will slowly be reopening their indoor spaces for dine-in at limited capacity and with new health guidelines instituted to ensure the safety of guests and staff. With the good news abound, here’s a list of Chicago restaurants opening for indoor dining this weekend and onwards.


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Mercadito

108 W Kinzie St, Chicago, IL 60654

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Voted a top Mexican restaurant in Chicago, Mercadito is widely known for its authentic Mexican cuisine as well as its first-class tequila and mezcal-based specialty cocktails. Though the menu will still continue to be limited, don’t take that to mean the quality of the food will be limited as well. Patrons dining inside or on the patio can still expect to be blown away by their award-winning tacos and signature guacamole.

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III Forks Prime Steakhouse

180 N Field Blvd, Chicago, IL 60601

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Located in Lakeshore East, III Forks Prime Steakhouse will open their dining room in addition to opening up seating on their rooftop lounge. As it has been, carry-out and delivery will continue normal operations. For those that want to up their dinner game, we recommend getting the Chicken Fried Lobster, an off-menu treat that is often available by request.

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Le Sud

2301 W. Roscoe Street, Chicago, IL 60618

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This French-Mediterranean restaurant sitting in Roscoe Village is opening its dining room for seating as well as providing space on their sidewalk cafe. Le Sud is open most weekdays and all through the weekend. If you’re looking for some of the most refreshing tastes from the south of France, Le Sud has you covered.

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Bar Roma

5101 N. Clark Street, Chicago, IL 60640

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Bar Roma is now taking reservations for its patio and tavern seating. This Andersonville Italian restaurant is currently only offering a 3-course menu for $34 (with a la carte options available for add on purchase) that includes antipasti, pasta entrees, and a dessert. A true steal for an amazing deal!

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Oda Mediterranean Cuisine

5657 N Clark Street, Chicago, IL 60660

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Another Andersonville staple, Oda Mediterranean Cuisine is also welcoming guests for indoor dining in addition to offering seating on their sidewalk cafe and window-side in the tavern area. While reservations aren’t required, they certainly are encouraged. With specialties in Turkish and Georgian dishes, Oda offers a wonderful entrance into the world of Mediterranean eats.

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The Dearborn

145 N Dearborn St, Chicago, IL 60602

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The Lawless sisters, Clodagh and Amy Lawless, are happy to announce that on the month of their 4-year anniversary, The Dearborn will be reopening its tavern doors to serve up classic and imaginative Irish eats for those in Chicago’s Loop neighborhood and anyone else venturing their way. With options like Steak Tartare & Bone Marrow and Oxtail Mac and Cheese, Executive Chef Aaron Cuschieri is ready to delight our tongues.

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Mundano

1935 N Lincoln Park W, Chicago, IL 60614

Lincoln Park gets a new restaurant starting July 1st with Mundano opening their patio and indoor dining area. Mundano brings patrons what Executive Chef Ross Henke calls “New American” cuisine. Options include things like Savory Churros that come decked with manchego cheese and herbs, Dan Dan Noodles with lamb chorizo, chile morita, and broccoli rabe, and Sungold Tomatoes with strawberry nuoc cham. For their grand opening, Mundano will be holding a celebratory BBQ on their patio on July 4th.

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Found Kitchen + Social House

1631 Chicago Ave, Evanston, IL 60201

Okay, so this is technically in Evanston and not Chicago (haters, we’re ready for you!), but with their amazing burgers and absolutely Instagram-ready cheeseboards, it’d be a grievous oversight not to have Found Kitchen + Social House on this list. Even the menu is currently limited and no brunch is being offered, Chef Debbie Gold is confident that come July more options will be available. Reservations here are strongly encouraged!

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The Barn Steakhouse

1016 Church St Rear, Evanston, IL 60201

Yes, another Evanston restaurant. But when you try the Crab Spaghetti, you’ll also be quick to claim this chic, New American eatery as one of Chicago’s finest. With gorgeous rustic ambiance mixed with absolutely delicious steaks and cocktails, you’re going to want to get your reservation here as soon as possible, especially considering their indoor space is opening at 25-percent capacity. 

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Wells Street Market

205 W Wacker Dr #100, Chicago, IL 60606

Starting Monday, July 6th, the “fall hall in the middle of it all” will be open for online ordering, pickup, and limited indoor seating Monday through Friday. Firecakes will be open for breakfast from 7 am – 2 pm, Fry the Coop and Tabo Sushi will be open for lunch from 11 am – 3 pm and Grand Central Bar will be open for cocktails from 12 pm – 7 pm. Guests are required to wear masks when they’re not eating and maintain a safe distance from other patrons. They are also asked to enter via the Wacker exterior door and exit on Wells Street via the revolving doors.

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PB&J

205 N Peoria St, Chicago, IL 60607

In the heart of West Loop, PB&J is Chicago’s newest hangout spot that specializes in pizza, beer, and a jukebox. (Pizza and beer! Not peanut butter!) Guests can expect to enjoy cold beer on tap, some bangin’ Neapolitan style pizzas, and a state-of-the-art TouchTunes Jukebox, all while sinking some shots at their pool table. You’re going to want to keep this spot on your radar because it’s promising some good fun and some good eats.

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Hubbard Inn

110 W Hubbard St, Chicago, IL 60654

Hubbard Inn visitors will be greeted with high top tables across the first floor of the Sun Parlor, featuring windows floor to ceiling open to Hubbard Street. The second floor, Blue Violet, also has seating for up to 50 guests. Menu highlights include Kung Pao Cauliflower, Bacon Flatbread, Duck and Truffle Risotto Cakes, and more! Reservations are strongly recommended at one of Chicago’s best restaurants, opening for indoor dining this weekend.

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Joy District

112 W Hubbard St, Chicago, IL 60654

A Chicago favorite, Joy District is adding rooftop dining for the first time ever in addition to opening up Parlay, their first floor sports parlor. Throughout the entire venue, a limited Bites Menu will be available, including crispy Buttermilk Boneless Wings, the special Joy Burger, an assortment of pizzas, and more! But this wouldn’t be a truly good snippet about Joy District without mentioning drinks. Frozen margaritas, anyone?

Know any more Chicago restaurants opening for indoor dining this weekend? Let us know in the comments below!

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