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London label Touch brings its 40th-anniversary celebration to the International Museum of Surgical ScienceMonica Kendrickon May 16, 2022 at 11:00 am

London-based Touch isn’t a record label in the traditional sense; it’s far more multifaceted. It might be more accurate to describe Touch as a collective that also extends into publishing, performance curation, and site-specific multimedia events driven by a loosely defined stable of international avant-garde electronic and sound artists, who include guitarist and producer Fennesz, experimental electronic composer Phill Niblock, multi-instrumentalist Oren Ambarchi, noise and techno producer Mika Vainio, and Icelandic composer Hilda Guðnadóttir. 

This year Touch turns 40, and it’s celebrating its big anniversary with a chain of showcases in the U.S. and Europe that kicked off in Berlin in January. The Chicago event, held at the International Museum of Surgical Sciences, has a great lineup. Ohio native and Los Angeles resident Jonathan Thomas Miller is a multi-instrumentalist and composer for film and TV, and his credits include the Life Below Zero documentary series. Last year his versatile style, which blends esotericism and whimsy, landed him a composer-in-residence position at Columbia College. Hard-working composer and sound artist Olivia Block has been one of the brightest lights in Chicago electronica and minimalism since the 90s. Her latest solo work, last year’s Innocent Passage in the Territorial Sea, is absolutely mesmerizing. The track “En Echelon” recalls noise pioneers Suicide while also managing to suggest glitch culture, harpsichords, and drum circles—all within less than six minutes, a span that feels longer than it is in the best possible way. For this show, Block will collaborate with minimalist Chicago duo Cleared, aka percussionist Steven Hess (who also plays in Rlyr and Locrian) and guitarist Michael Vallera (also of Luggage). Block contributed a remix of a Cleared track to their 2020 album for Touch, The Key, and she’s collaborated with Hess in experimental group Haptic. Block will provide field recordings and synth organ for this performance, which she says will include a shared piece in two parts: one focusing on field recordings and electronics, the second on instruments and tones. The venue for the concert, the International Museum of Surgical Science, is a Chicago gem that deserves its own write-up—its environment creates an intense combination of the luminous and the grotesque, and these artists are perfect for threading that needle.

40 Years of Touch A showcase by London collective Touch featuring Jonathan Thomas Miller and Cleared with Olivia Block. Sat 5/21, 7:30 PM, Museum of Surgical Science, 1524 N. Lake Shore, $22, 21+

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Broken Nose, American Writers Festival, and a Crystal BallKerry Reid, Micco Caporale and Salem Collo-Julinon May 13, 2022 at 6:47 pm

Looking for some mid-month fun? Check out the following events and ideas.

FRI 5/13

Broken Nose Theatre continues its season with the Chicago premiere of Zoe Kazan’s dystopic drama After the Blast, directed by JD Caudill. In light of the leaked SCOTUS draft decision on Roe v. Wade, Kazan’s story about a couple forced to seek government approval in order to have a child feels especially timely. Anna (Kim Boler) and Oliver (Ruben Carrazana), like the rest of humankind, have been forced to live in underground bunkers after a global disaster. Anna’s depression counts against them in their bid to become parents—so Oliver brings a robot child named Arthur into their home as a companion for his wife, which opens up a can of worms about their relationship and the stress of, you know, living underground because the surface of Earth is uninhabitable. The show opens in previews tonight at 7:30 PM and has its official press opening on Sunday at 3 PM; performances continue at the Den (1331 N. Milwaukee) Thu-Sun through Sat 6/11. As with all Broken Nose shows, tickets are pay what you can, with reservations available at brokennosetheatre.com. (KR)

Chicago playwright Terry Guest writes often about the intersection of Blackness and queerness, as in his celebrated At the Wake of a Dead Drag Queen, presented by the Story Theatre in 2019. Reader critic Catey Sullivan noted in her review, “Guest explores the impact of trauma survived not just once or twice, but as a regular occurrence over decades, passed down through generations and carried in the very genetic makeup of African Americans.” Guest revisits those themes in The Magnolia Ballet, now in previews with About Face Theatre under the direction of Mikael Burke (who also directed Drag Queen). Ezekiel, a Black teenager in Georgia who is “haunted by the ghosts of racism, homophobia, and toxic masculinity” discovers some startling letters from his late grandfather that inspire him to “burn everything to the ground.” The southern gothic fable features poetry, dance, and spectacle, and stars Guest himself as Ezekiel, along with Wardell Julius Clark, Sheldon D. Brown, and Ben Sulzberger. Tonight’s preview performance is at 7:30 PM at the Den; press opening is next Friday and it runs through 6/11. Tickets are $5-$35 at aboutfacetheatre.com. (KR)

Night crawlers know that today is Friday the 13th, so snake your way over to Subterranean (2011 W. North), then head downstairs to experience Necro-Disko: an evening of decadent darkness deejayed by Club Music, Flores Negras, and Faith Betinis. For $7, you can dance among the similarly undead–that is, the ones 21 and up. The body count starts rising at 10 PM. For more information, check out Flores Negras Productions’s Facebook page. (MC)

Chicago, turn off your lights! The city sees its biggest annual migration of birds in May, including some endangered species, so we need to work together to make their trip safer. While the migration may have peaked this month, this is still the busiest week for traveling birds, so let’s give them the dark welcome they deserve. As the Chicago Tribune reports, Chicago’s skies are the most dangerous for birds in the United States. (Thank the planes heading to and from our busy national airports and our very tall skyscrapers covered in reflective surfaces!) To help our feathered friends, conservationists are asking Chicagoans to use as few lights as possible between 11 PM and 6 AM this week. Anyone want to go stargazing? (MC)

SAT 5/14

Once a month the Renaissance Collaborative hosts a walking tour through the former Wabash YMCA (​​3763 S. Wabash). When it opened in 1911, the Wabash Y was the first one to admit Black residents, helping it become a center for political, economic, and cultural progress for Black Chicagoans. In fact, Negro History Week started there in 1926—the event eventually evolved into Black History Month in the 1970s. Now the building is a historic landmark filled with ephemera documenting its rich history. From 10:30-11:30 AM today and most second Saturdays, Renaissance Collaborative will guide you through that storied past in vivid detail. The tour is free, but donations are encouraged. Don’t forget to register! (MC)

A&A Ballet offers a family-friendly dance concert, featuring the debut of their new version of The Carnival of the Animals, featuring the music of French composer Camille Saint-Saëns and choreography by A&A cofounding artistic director Alexei Kremnev (the other “A” in the company name is Anna Reznik). Kremnev’s take on The Firebird also receives a world premiere on the hour-long bill, accompanied by sand art animation created by Anastasia Antropova. (Braeden Barnes is credited with additional choreography.) The show is at 3 PM in the mainstage space at the Athenaeum (2936 N. Southport); tickets are $25-$55 at aacenterfordance.org. (KR)

What does the future of Chicago Art Department (CAD) hold? Only one way to find out . . . Starting at 7 PM, CAD hosts an anniversary fundraiser called the Crystal Ball at their space (1926 S. Halsted). For 18 years, CAD has provided exhibition space, professional resources, and community for social-practice artists. This evening will include a silent auction and raffle, immersive art installations, and artist interventions in keeping with the theme (hint: there will be some magic and tarot happening). DJ LOKari will be the night’s vibe curator, which includes performing with members of Black Monument Ensemble, led by CAD artist Damon Locks. There will also be an award ceremony to honor three people who exemplify “the magic of community.” Food and open bar are included. Tickets start at $100 ($65 for students and artists), but donations of any amount are welcome and appreciated. (MC)

Cerqua Rivera Dance Theatre (CRDT) has spent the spring developing new work inspired by west-side and south-side cultural organizations and icons, including photographer, historian, and scholar Carlos Flores and the Southside Jazz Coalition. That spirit of exploration is nothing new for the company, cofounded by Honduran-born choreographer Wilfredo Rivera and composer Joe Cerqua in 2007; their mission is “to fuse dance, music, and visual art to explore and celebrate contemporary society while exploring the intersection of heritage, culture, and identity.” Tonight, CRDT presents a selection from their repertoire at the Beverly Arts Center (2407 W. 111th); the show is at 7:30 PM and tickets are $36 at thebeverlyartscenter.com. (KR)

A recently made sizzle reel from Cerqua Rivera Dance Theatre

SUN 5/15

Chicagoans celebrate a good story and deft turn of phrase. It follows then that we’re the hometown of so many celebrated writers as well as an entire museum dedicated to their craft. The American Writers Museum (AWM) celebrates their fifth anniversary this year with the debut American Writers Festival, a free and open to the public two-day event. More than 75 authors, playwrights, and artists will offer their thoughts in a variety of panel discussions, book talks (some with opportunities for audience members to get their books autographed), and workshops. It all kicks off today at 10 AM and continues through Monday; the full schedule (available at the AWM website) lists events happening in four spaces within the Chicago Cultural Center (78 E. Washington), at the AWM itself (180 N. Michigan), and also online via the AWM’s YouTube channel. Some of today’s highlights include the keynote address from U.S. Poet Laureate Joy Harjo and Marie Arana, writer and literary director of the Library of Congress, at 10:15 AM in the Sidney R. Yates gallery at the Cultural Center, a conversation with Ashley C. Ford and Dr. Eve L. Ewing at 12:30 PM in the Cultural Center’s Preston Bradley Hall, and “Writing American Comedy,” a panel discussion including Peter Sagal, Karen Chee, Peter Gwinn, Alexandra Petri, and Cristela Alonzo (5:30 PM in the Yates gallery). (SCJ)

Step out of the heat and into “Neo-Tang,” a group show at Co-Prosperity Sphere (3219 S. Morgan). This is work made by adults who were raised guzzling the off-flavor sugar powders (Tang, Kool-Aid, Flavor-Aid, etc) that turned hydration into a uniquely trippy childhood experience. Taking this as a metaphor for growing up American, art in this show expands on the idea that Tang as a gateway drug normalizes certain attitudes—not only treating a life necessity like water as something that we need to pay to transform in order to enjoy but also doing it in the most nutritionally bereft, experience-altering way possible. (God, those sugar highs . . . ) “Neo-Tang” revels in the personal and cultural chaos wrought from this kind of artificiality. The gallery is open Saturdays and Sundays from noon-5 PM and Friday nights from 5-8 PM through the show’s closing on Sun 5/22. (MC)

Providing community radio to Chicago for 15 years means that you’ve accumulated a lot of recordings and CHIRP (107.1 on the FM dial and online at chirpradio.org) is ready to unload some of their treasures to you. The volunteer-driven station hosts a CD Blowout sale today on the back patio at Burning Bush Brewery (4014 N. Rockwell), with an indoor option depending on weather conditions. From 1-5 PM, enjoy libations from the bar and food from First Slice Pie Cafe while you shop CHIRP’s inventory of thousands of CDs. There will also be offerings on hand from Delmark Records and Mega Hugs Press. It’s free to attend and masks are requested. (SCJ)

The Chicago Coalition for Justice in Palestine is holding a national day of protest to honor the loss of Shireen Abu Akleh, a journalist for Al Jazeera who was shot in the head by Israeli troops while wearing a press vest. Abu Akleh was a venerated reporter who compassionately documented the injustices that impacted Palestinians. At the time of her murder, she was covering the illegal Israeli raids of refugee camps in Jenin. Her death is a visceral symbol of Israeli occupation in Palestine and the ongoing international fight for press freedom. At 2 PM, protestors will be meeting at the intersection of Ida B. Wells and Michigan, and they’re encouraged to bring “friends, flags, and keffiyehs.” (MC)

MON 5/16

Get those hips moving! Tonight and every third Monday of the month, El Caobo Internacional DJs Monday Mambo Mayhem, an evening celebrating dances like the mambo, salsa, bachata, and more. It starts with a free dance lesson from the University of Chicago’s Ballroom and Latin Dance Association at 7:15 PM, so there’s no excuse to show up and at least attempt to shake it a little. Open dancing continues at 8 PM and the event is limited to those 18 years old and up. It’s all at the Promontory in Hyde Park (5311 S. Lake Park Ave. West), and while there’s no cover—be sure to bring some cash for libations. (SCJ)

TUE 5/17

German artist Beate Axmann has been visiting Chicago in the last weeks on the occasion of her solo exhibition at the gallery at DANK Haus, the non-profit north side German American cultural center (4740 N. Western). For “Sichtverrückt (Lost and Found),” Axmann curated several public events and workshops to happen alongside her collection of new paintings. Tonight is a chance to see how artists work, as Axmann invited Evanston artist Joanna Pinsky to collaborate with her on a public collaborative piece, created in real time in the gallery. Visitors can drop into the gallery (on the first floor of the center) starting at 7 PM to see the two painters at work and take in the rest of the exhibition, which closes Fri 5/20. (SCJ)

If you’re anything like me, you’ve been through the full range of human emotions this spring so far, from laughing to crying to laughing again. So why should a Tuesday night be any different? The people at the Wicker Park branch of Innjoy seem to agree, and you can join in on the roller coaster of feelings with tonight’s “Laugh Now, Cry Later” event. Join hosts Tim Tootle and Aaron Chase at 8 PM for live comedy featuring a rotating roster of local performers. Stick around later for Taste of Emo Tuesdays, a chance to hear all the hits that kept you in black eyeliner moping around the bedroom, shouting “Why? Whyyyy?” at an indifferent world. The music portion is hosted by Krue and DJ Burr, and Innjoy offers $5 taco baskets on Tuesdays before 10 so you can stuff it all down if need be. Open to those 21 and up; see the hosts’s Facebook event for more information. (SCJ)

WED 5/18

The Aura House is a Black holistic health collective that centers Black women while providing spiritual tools and mental health skills. Tonight they’re facilitating a discussion-based workshop on adult female friendship at Soho House (113-125 N. Green). Inspired by readings on why maintaining adult female friendships can be challenging, the workshop will touch on different communication styles, the unique challenges of forging new friendships in adulthood, and what a strong friendship foundation looks like. It goes from 5-7 PM, and while free, registration is required. (MC)

The Ride of Silence is an annual event hosted during Bike Safety Month that was started to raise awareness of motorists, police, and city officials of the issues that cyclists face when moving on public roadways. The ride, held at the same time in cities all over the world, also functions as a tribute to cyclists who have been injured or killed in road incidents. Tonight, cyclists in Chicago will meet up at the Thompson Center (Randolph and LaSalle) to join together as a group for the ride, which celebrates its 20th anniversary in 2022. Riders will start off at 6 PM on a course through downtown passing the sites of recent cyclist fatalities. The route will cover less than 10 miles, and reconvene at the Thompson Center at the end. See the Chicago Cycling Club’s website for more. (SCJ)

THU 5/19

Looking to get more money from the music you created? At noon, Golden Dagger (2447 N. Halsted) is hosting a workshop on music licensing for songwriters taught by indie folk rocker Judson Claiborne. From how to register and enforce copyright to reviewing your licensing options, Claiborne will provide a basic understanding of this revenue stream. Only you can decide if and when licensing is for you! The workshop is $25 and only open to those 21 and older. Masks and proof of vaccination are expected. (MC)

Doc10, Chicago’s only documentary film festival, starts today and continues through Sun 5/22. New this year is a curated program of short documentaries as well as an industry panel about streaming and the “increasingly high-stakes nature” of producing online documentaries. In keeping with the name, there will also be ten feature-length documentaries, including The Janes, about the 1960s Chicago abortion collective of the same name, and The Territory, which documents the anti-colonial resistance movement of the Indigenous Uru-eu-wau-wau people of the Amazon. For a complete list of programming and ticketing information, check out Doc10’s website. (MC)

A trailer created for Tongues Untied (1989)

The filmmaker Marlon Riggs was an educator, poet, and gay rights activist whose independent documentary film Tongues Untied introduced many at-home viewers to the realities of gay Black men when it was aired as part of the PBS series P.O.V. in 1991. The broadcast set off a debate about defunding the arts, led by infamous conservative Republican senator Jesse Helms, marking an early 1990s reexamination of American values that reignited a mainstream interest in supporting both the art and lives of LGBTQ+ people of color and those living with HIV. Tonight’s “Ceremonies: a Selection of Short Films by Marlon Riggs” features three of Riggs’s works: Affirmations (ten minutes, 1990), Anthem (eight minutes, 1991), and Non, Je ne Regrette Rien (No Regret) (38 minutes, 1993), the latter created with five gay Black men living with HIV; in the film they discuss the added pressure and stigmas associated with their homosexuality and HIV status. It’s a program co-hosted by South Side Projections and the South Side Community Art Center. The screening is followed by a discussion led by Chicago artist zakkiyyah najeebah dumas-o’neal (who also works as the public programs and engagement manager at the art center) and Aymar Jean Christian, an associate professor of communication studies at Northwestern as well as cofounder of OTV Open Television. It’s free and starts at 6 PM tonight at South Side Community Art Center (3831 S. Michigan); an RSVP via Eventbrite is encouraged. (SCJ) 

Reader senior writer Leor Galil says that the Chicago band Gentle Heat “play no-nonsense indie rock that captures the allure of a towering blaze in the space of a single spark.” You can see if they light your fire tonight as they headline a concert at Hideout, the venerable bar and venue at 1354 W. Wabansia. This show is an all-local band affair; local band Discus will play before Gentle Heat (Galil praised their 2019 debut full-length album Something Has Happened) and the efficiently named Smut starts off the night with their take on loud and crunchy shoegaze. It all begins at 9:30 PM; advance tickets are $12 each and can be purchased through the Hideout’s website. This show is open to those 21 and up. (SCJ)

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Loving, repeating, collaborating, and intimacyCoco Picardon May 16, 2022 at 6:57 pm

Credit: Coco Picard

In a new exhibition, longtime collaborators Dutes Miller and Stan Shellabarger created an immersive multimedia installation that explores intimacy, distance, and the fluctuations between. The above comic captures their reflections on making together and materials in play. Text from the comic is transcribed here to ease readability.

Our collaboration developed organically. We were both ceramic students at Illinois State University but did not collaborate (or date) at the time. We worked cooperatively as many craftspeople do, sharing tasks like making clay and firing kilns. We are both from large families where cooperation is necessary. 

A few years later, we started living together and working on collaborative performance pieces. Those performances grew out of a shared interest in performance and each other. 

The silhouette is very present in “Loving Repeating.” The silhouette is made from tracing a shadow. A shadow is a reminder that a body is present and a silhouette is a reminder that a body is gone. What is missing causes loneliness. In “Loving Repeating,” there is a large painted mural of our silhouette repeated many times to form a pattern. That pattern is then pushed into a forced perspective, creating an illusion of the mural receding into space. Some may see a hint to the infinite in this receding in space. 

“Loving Repeating: New Work by Miller & Shellabarger”
Through 9/3: Mon-Thu 10 AM-7 PM, Fri 10 AM-4:30 PM, Sat 10 AM-4 PM, Sun 10 AM-1:30 PM, Hyde Park Art Center, 5020 S. Cornell, 773-324-5520, hydeparkart.org

The name of the exhibition comes from a Gertrude Stein novel, The Making of the Americans. She talks about history being made by the repetition of the everyday over generations and that is a type of infinity. She also suggests that love is tied to loving the way that another [person] is repeating. These ideas of togetherness and separation run throughout most of our collaborative efforts.

We’ve done two other similar shows like the one at the Hyde Park Art Center. The ashes of both are included in [“Loving Repeating”] in their pine box urns. Like those shows, all the work—excluding the murals—are made of paper and after the show ends will be burnt and placed in a pine box urn.

We talk about our collaborative work all the time and everywhere: at breakfast, on walks . . . We have art dates where we hash out details about this and that. We’ve been working collaboratively for almost 30 years, so it comes easily—but it really always has. We’ve also had very separate solo art practices since the very beginning.

Don’t force your collaboration. If you give your work time and attention it will grow.

Miller & Shellabarger’s artist page at Western Exhibitions
westernexhibitions.com


Show us your . . . pink tube

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An MCA exhibit about art and archaeology could dig a little deeper.

It’s a garden but that’s no snake

Dutes Miller on gay identity

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Bewjeweled butt plugs and the war on abortionDan Savageon May 16, 2022 at 5:49 pm

Q: I’m a straight guy, married to a straight woman for 15 years. Several years back, I opened up to my wife about my fantasies of her sleeping with other men. I was nervous about bringing it up. Her views on sex had always been traditional, and she had always expressed a very strict idea of monogamy and commitment. So, I was extremely relieved when her reaction was intrigue rather than disgust. She was curious about it and wondered if I really wanted it to happen or if it was just something I wanted to keep in our rotation of dirty talk. Fast-forward to this week, and my wife tells me she is interested in exploring this. (Note to other guys who want this from their wives: be respectful, don’t pressure, and give her time to think about it. Your patience might be rewarded!) Here is the problem: We both have careers that could be complicated or damaged by the stigma around “cheating.” I know about all the apps out there, but we live in a large city, and there is a nonzero chance that we might run into someone on the apps we are connected to professionally or socially. Are any of the apps out there geared toward folks who want to go about this carefully? Is it possible to minimize the risk of professional or social embarrassment here, or is this just something we must accept to pursue this lifestyle? —Hooking Up, Seeking Help

A: There are lots of dating apps for people and/or couples looking for casual sex and/or kinky sex (Feeld, 3Somer, #Open, et al.), and lots of people—single and partnered—looking for casual and/or kinky sex on regular dating apps (Tinder, OKCupid, Christian Mingle, et al.). But hookup/threesome/swinger apps, while perceived as sleazier, are a safer bet for a couple like you and your wife.

While there’s no way to eliminate your risk of being recognized on an app, HUSH, anyone who spots you on Feeld looking for extracurricular dick was on Feeld looking for and/or offering up a little extracurricular dick of their own. The threat of mutually assured destruction—if they gossip about you, you’ll gossip about them—is usually enough to restrain bad actors, as is the threat of the obvious follow-up question. (“Wait, why are you on Feeld?”) And most people on hookup apps aren’t bad actors, HUSH, but fundamentally decent people like you and your wife, i.e., singles and couples looking for a little fun, not for an opportunity to hurt anyone. A friend or a relative or a coworker who spots your wife in a bar with a strange man—or in the lobby of a hotel or on her way into your apartment—is likelier to cause you headaches than one of your fellow perverts online.

To minimize your risk of being spotted and outed on the apps, HUSH, don’t post face pics and only share them after you’ve established—to the best of your ability—the person you’re talking to isn’t a bot, a pic collector, or an extortionist. Again, there’s no way to fully eliminate the risk, but at a certain point you have to trust your gut and take a risk. You also have the option of creating a profile in a city you visit regularly but don’t live in, HUSH. After you’ve found and vetted a few good candidates, get yourself some airline tickets and a hotel room and have those drinks in a bar that a colleague, a fan, or your father-in-law is unlikely to walk into.

Q: There’s a story making the rounds on Reddit about people getting those metallic “bejeweled butt plugs” all the way into their asses and needing pretty intense intervention to get them out, ranging from partners pulling them out with their fingers (the unfun kind of double penetration) to actual surgery in a hospital (only fun for a very select few). The blame, apparently, is the fact that the base of these toys is rarely wider than the widest party of the head, which is pretty damning, and that lubed metal is slipperier than lubed silicone. So here are the operative questions: Are metallic bejeweled butt plugs safe or not so much? Are silicone bejeweled butt plugs any safer? Are there any safe bejeweled butt plug options out there? The world isn’t going to stop being obsessed with sparkly butt toys any time soon, so we’re going to need to find a way to do it safely. —Insertion Toy Extraction Messy Situation

A: I’ve seen those jeweled butt plugs in shops and in photos online—they’re usually made from stainless steel and have glass “gems” mounted at the end of an alarmingly narrow base—but I’ve never actually seen one in person. Or in a person, at least not in person. But knowing what I do about butts (and how they relax after some play), and knowing what I do about plugs (a flared base is your first line of defense against a trip to the ER), I would’ve worried too much about losing one to use one. As for safe bejeweled butt plug options, ITEMS, you’re going to want a flared base and a jewel that’s at least the size of Cullinan I Diamond, the fist-sized rock on the Queen of England’s royal scepter, which come to think of it . . .

Q: As you’ve surely heard, the conservative Supreme Court majority plans to overturn Roe v. Wade. While my wife and I were lamenting the state of this fucking country, she mentioned that nobody ever hears men talking about the abortions that kept their lives on track—even though that’s obviously a very common thing that happens. How many guys shat their pants after a condom failed during sex with a woman they weren’t that into? How many prominent men knocked up their mistresses or assistants or babysitters? How many Republican boys have pressed a wad of their parents’ money into a girl’s hand because having a baby would ruin his future? These men need to speak up. I’m not expecting actual Republicans to do so, but perhaps there are men out there who are willing to speak up and admit what we all know: Men benefit from abortion while bearing none of the shame associated with it. It’s time we heard from them. I’m sorry I don’t have a catchy name for this or a cute sign-off. I’m so tired and the world is falling apart. —Men Should Speak Up About Abortion

A: Now for some real worries. We are weeks away from American women being stripped of a fundamental constitutional and human right. And we face the prospect of an out-of-control and illegimate Supreme Court stripping us of a host of other rights: the right to contraception, the right to same-sex marriage, the right to interracial marriage, even the right to have sex for pleasure—you know, the sex most people have most of the time. In Lawrence v. Texas (2003), the Supreme Court struck down sodomy laws that criminalized not just consensual gay sex, but consensual sex between men and women that wasn’t open to conception as well.

While it should be enough to hear from women who’ve benefited from safe and legal abortion—and it should be enough to know that women die from unsafe and illegal abortions, and enough to know that banning abortions doesn’t stop women from getting abortions—I happen to agree that cis men who support abortion rights and have benefited from them need to speak the fuck up about reproductive freedom.

“There are millions of men whose lives would have been worse without abortion,” the writer Jill Filipovic wrote on Twitter last week. “Men who wouldn’t have found their big loves, wouldn’t have their kids, wouldn’t have been as successful, wouldn’t have taken big risks” if they had become fathers before they were ready. To those men, to all men, Filipovic says, “This is your fight, too. Get in it.”

And gay men? The exact same arguments being used right now to strip women of the right to decide when and whether they want to bear a child—abortion isn’t within the “history and traditions” of the United States, abortion isn’t a right enumerated in the Constitution, abortion is a moral question—can and will be used to strip us of the right to have sex and the right to marry. Republican assholes are passing laws in red states right fucking now that force women to give birth to their rapists’ babies against their will. Don’t for a second think these same assholes won’t pass laws forcibly ending your gay marriage or throwing your gay ass in jail for getting your gay ass fucked. This is our fight, too, faggots.

Q: Is there a website where we can legally find out how to buy the abortion pills you’ve mentioned on the podcast? —Make It Stop

A: Everything you need to know about abortion pills—how they work and where to get them—can be found at plancpills.org. And anyone using those pills at home needs to read Dr. Jen Gunter’s essay “Your Medical Team Cannot Tell If You Had a Self-Managed Abortion” at vajenda.substack.com. And everyone should read Jill Filipovic’s advice on what we can do right now to fight back (“Get To Work, Get Informed, Get Brave”) at jill.substack.com. And if you can afford to donate to the National Network of Abortion Funds, now would be a great time to do so. They’re at abortionfunds.org. And finally: don’t vote Republican, don’t fuck Republicans.

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Elastic Arts’ AfriClassical Futures series continues with the Honourable Elizabeth A. BakerHannah Edgaron May 16, 2022 at 5:00 pm

Since January 2020, vocalist Julian Otis and Elastic Arts executive director Adam Zanolini have programmed AfriClassical Futures, a series offering an antidote to the overwhelming whiteness and deadness of the classical canon. Each AfriClassical concert invites a Black artist working in or springboarding from the Western classical tradition for an intimate live performance and conversation, though the exact form is up to the artist. Cellist Olula (who formerly performed as Olivia Harris), who came aboard as a curator of the series in its second season, explained this approach to Adam Zanolini for Elastic’s newsletter: “Because this is a ‘Western classical music’ series, it’s very important that we don’t bring in those hierarchies, that we don’t prop up the structures that we’re trying to fight against. . . . I want to continue to see a more expansive approach to [the question], ‘What is classical music?’” Previous AfriClassical guests have included chamber collective D-Composed, Milwaukee-based violin-and-cello duo Sista Strings, pianist and polymath Charles Joseph Smith, prolific composer and string player Renée Baker, and singer and composer Ayanna Woods, who’s behind some of the most engrossing choral music being written in Chicago right now. (Musical talent may be a family trait; her sister is Jamila Woods.) Next up in the series is the Honourable Elizabeth A. Baker, a Florida-born multi-instrumentalist and electronics artist whose cerebral, slow-developing music constantly reinvents itself. When she premiered her work “Strange Loops” here in October, the performance managed to amuse several AACM musicians—no small feat—by employing overlapping scales in different keys and directing musicians to bounce Ping-Pong balls inside a piano and use the bodies of other instruments as resonators, either by singing or blowing their horns into them. Ever out of the box, Baker will use this solo set to spotlight a harmonics guitar (specially designed by experimental luthier John C.L. Jansen) and the 16-channel speaker system at Elastic Arts, which the Chicago Laboratory for Electroacoustic Theatre installed just before the pandemic shutdown.

Elizabeth A. Baker, Sat 5/21, 8 PM, Elastic Arts, 3429 W. Diversey #208, $15, all ages

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True biz? There’s a lot to learn in Sara Nović’s new book.Taryn Allenon May 16, 2022 at 4:33 pm

“Eyeth—get it? In the Deaf storytelling tradition, utopia is called Eyeth because it’s a society that centers the eye, not the ear, like here on Earth.”

That’s the opener to “Ear vs. Eye: Deaf Mythology,” one of the many brief lessons sprinkled between the chapters of Sara Nović’s realistic fiction novel True Biz, released March 29 by Random House.

Charlie Serrano is a Deaf high school student in Ohio. Her cochlear implant has created language deprivation and family strife rather than improved hearing, but after her parents’ divorce, Charlie gets the opportunity to enroll in the fictional River Valley School for the Deaf, experiencing Deaf culture for the first time over the course of the book. Unfortunately, River Valley is at risk of losing its funding and shuttering. 

The point of view switches in third person between Charlie and other main characters with each chapter, denoted by the ASL symbol for the first letter of their name, but even when readers can’t focus exclusively on her point of view, chapter-break lessons allow us to look over Charlie’s shoulder at her coursework or research.

“Eyeth may be a pun, but it’s not a joke—it’s a myth.”

This particular lesson—meant to reinforce that Deaf culture is a culture, as well as to provoke questions about accessibility and designing a Deaf world—is one of many in Nović’s new book. They never feel dry or preachy, but I suppose I was primed to be interested from the get-go. 

I’m hearing, but learning the basics of American Sign Language (ASL) was an early quarantine hobby for me, and around the same time, my TikTok algorithm steered me deep into DeafTok. My “For You” page was full of Deaf creators, a wonderful mix of mini ASL lessons, stories, skits and jokes, and more. As immersive as TikTok, YouTube, and other resources can feel, I knew my experience of Deaf culture was still very limited and very online.

True Biz by Sara Nović
Random House, hardcover, 388 pp., $28, penguinrandomhouse.com

When I read the synopsis of True Biz—which is an expression in ASL that means “real talk” or “seriously”—I snatched the book up, and I was delighted to see the illustrations and bite-size lessons as I flipped through the pages.

Since Nović herself is Deaf, it initially feels like these teachings, like the Deaf mythology page, come directly from her to the reader. But the further you get into True Biz, the more you can tell that the lessons are for Charlie, from the other characters that Nović brings to life. 

We learn lessons like “Spelling Doesn’t Count,” on the American Sign Language (ASL) alphabet, and “Deaf President Now,” a history lesson about a student protest at Gallaudet University, from the syllabus of Dr. February Waters, a CODA (Child of Deaf Adults) and the headmistress at River Valley. We learn “Body Language,” a page full of illustrated instructions for signs like “naked,” “flirt,” and a range of other (dirtier) sexual words and actions, perhaps from Austin Workman-Bayard, Charlie’s mentor at school, whose family have been Deaf for generations. We also learn from Charlie herself, who encounters new concepts in the Deaf world and subsequently looks up Wikipedia pages such as “Black American Sign Language (BASL).” My personal favorites are her awestruck observations of her Deaf friends: Charlie marvels at their ability to ride the bus while signing with both hands, highly adept at balancing without holding on.

As Charlie gets more acclimated to River Valley, so too do we get acquainted with Charlie, her peers and family, and Deaf culture.

Nović’s writing is smooth and easy, even while jumping between perspectives. She balances dialogue in ASL, spoken English, and over text, with italics and alignment indicating who’s communicating. It’s interesting to read Deaf characters written by a Deaf author, as the use of sound as a key sense and descriptor is altered, but it’s no disadvantage. A key theme is language/sound access, and in many cases, Nović only lets us know what Charlie knows, creating vulnerability and slowing the pace of many conversations. A frequent refrain is Charlie seeing or hearing only a long blank space, signing or saying, “What?”, and someone having to repeat themself or fingerspell. 

Both in the chapter-break lessons and in the narrative sections, Nović manages to cover many intense topics without it feeling too jarring: bodily autonomy, Deaf “cures” and medical trauma, eugenics, anarchism, marital and family struggles, the cochlear implant debate, and more. In fact, Nović’s writing feels so steady that she never gives a true sense of urgency to even the most high-stakes parts of the plot, and the ending wasn’t as satisfying as I hoped. Still, True Biz is a page-turner, an intriguing character exploration, and an honest survey of the basics of Deafness.

It might be imperfect, but I finished the book ready to recommend it and full of renewed excitement for learning ASL, eager to consider how I too might work toward the ideals of Eyeth in my own everyday life.


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James De Salvo was photographed by Bill Kirby as part of the CITY 2000 photodocumentary project. He is deaf and speaks mostly in sign language. I met him at his town house in Wheaton about two years ago, and we spoke with the help of his daughter Priscilla and son Rocco. We continued the interview…

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Porchlight puts Passing Strange in the spotlightMatt Simonetteon May 16, 2022 at 9:34 pm

For Chicago-based director Donterrio, the late-00s musical Passing Strange represents a road map for how an artist—no matter the medium in which they create—can live their life. 

The show’s story of a Black musician’s coming-of-age depicts “what happens once you have this crazy dream as a teenager to be an artist, and this is how you end up if you don’t cede to the message,” he explained. 

Porchlight Revisits: Passing Strange
Wed 5/18, 7 PM and Thu 5/19, 1:30 and 7 PM; Ruth Page Center for the Arts, 1016 N. Dearborn, porchlightmusictheatre.org, $49.

Donterrio has been at the helm of Porchlight Music Theatre’s new production of Passing Strange, which will be presented this Wednesday and Thursday as part of the company’s ongoing Porchlight Revisits series, highlighting musicals that have fallen off the theater community’s radar.

Opening with much acclaim on Broadway in February 2008, Passing Strange was created by musician and playwright Stew. (Heidi Rodewald collaborated on the music.) The show depicts the life of a young musician—simply referred to as “the youth”—and his struggles with love and work as he searches to find his voice as an artist. Songs bridging numerous musical genres are interspersed throughout. The narrator, identified as “Stew,” was originally portrayed by Stew.  

The show was essentially a primer on how to be “a healthy, well-rounded artist,” according to Donterrio. “It says, ‘Watch out for these things. Spend time with your family. Be careful of the people who don’t love you back.’”

Passing Strange ran on Broadway through July 2008 and was nominated for seven Tony Awards, winning one for Best Book, and also received three Drama Desk Awards. But even after Spike Lee filmed two performances for a 2009 movie, Passing Strange has only rarely been performed in subsequent years. (The now-defunct Bailiwick Chicago—not to be confused with the also-defunct Bailiwick Repertory—produced a critically acclaimed staging of the show in 2011, directed by Lili-Anne Brown.)

Porchlight artistic director Michael Weber suspects the show’s original marketers had a difficult time selling the show since it “was a live, personal piece written for Stew to perform himself.” The Broadway milieu, he added, “is more tourist-based and more international-based, and they want to see things with the biggest-name actors or the biggest-titled shows like Wicked or Phantom of the Opera.”

Passing Strange, Weber noted, is a “thinking person’s show—it is very nuanced in terms of the vision it is trying to expound upon, and I think that made it a little difficult for people to put in a nutshell what the experience is. . . . I think that, had they had a star that everybody knew, it would have had a different life, but on the other hand, it would have lost everything it had [with] Stew there on stage.”

Donterrio, for his part, embraced the challenge of Passing Strange being so intrinsically interwoven with the personality and memories from its creator.

“If people look at the core of the story that’s there, it’s the story of any artist,” he explained. “With our production, we’re kind of able to dig into that. I think we’ll be able to open up to a new audience and we don’t have to rely on Stew’s being and his physicality, [and] the way he sang the material. We can just do the material, be honest to it, and it can kind of be like Pippin, where it can be any performer.” 

Donterrio further described the cast as “a roomful of multifaceted artists. The actors are [regularly] directors and costume designers, for example. They do other things as well, so it’s been a really fun creative process. It will be a really fun show to experience.”  

The Porchlight Revisits series has been featuring stagings of little-seen musicals since 2018. According to Weber, Passing Strange demonstrates that Porchlight is programming not just a retrospective of forgotten vintage shows but important and compelling shows that did not have a chance to connect with audiences.

Passing Strange is definitely one of the newest shows we’ve done in the Porchlight Revisited series,” Weber said. “[But] it will always be a mix of the lesser seen shows that we think deserve a second look.”

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Looking for legal help? Here are some tips that can make your search easier

Looking for legal help? Here are some tips that can make your search easier

From family issues or personal injuries to estate planning or dealing with criminal charges, there are many life circumstances that might require you to look for legal help. While not all legal matters call for the intervention of a lawyer or other legal professionals and you can handle certain legal situations on your own, getting support and guidance from a legal expert can be of great help, especially if you’re dealing with more serious issues. 

A highly skilled lawyer can help you navigate the complexities of the legal system, decide on the best course of action, reduce the stress and pressure that often come with legal-related issues, and significantly increase your chances of obtaining a favorable outcome. However, if you want to enjoy all these benefits you have to find the right legal help first which can prove rather difficult if you’ve never been in a similar situation before. 

So, if you’re currently looking for legal help and you don’t know where to start your search, here are some useful tips that can help you out. 

Know what kind of legal help you need

Before you start looking around for lawyers and legal services, you should know exactly what type of legal help you require. What kind of legal issue do you need help with? Is it drafting a will, getting a divorce, fighting criminal charges? The answer to these questions will guide you in the right direction and help you narrow down your options.  

The legal field is extremely complex and encompasses many areas of practice, so you have to find someone that specializes in the area that concerns you. You can also look for a general practice lawyer that doesn’t have a specific field of expertise and can provide assistance to clients on a wide variety of legal issues and proceedings. If the issue you’re dealing with is not particularly complicated, a general practice lawyer can be of great help. However, if you’re looking for a lawyer to represent you in a murder case, for example, you definitely need to hire a professional who has training and expertise in this specific area. 

Ask for recommendations from family and friends 

One of the simplest and most effective ways to get in contact with a reliable lawyer or law company is getting referrals from friends and family. If someone from your close circle has had a positive experience with a legal service before, they can tell you about how things went for them and give you their contact details. 

Recommendations from family and friends are always a great idea because unlike online reviews you know for sure they have good intentions and they can provide you with their honest opinion regarding the lawyers or companies they’ve worked with. However, keep in mind that one personal experience might not always provide an accurate reflection of a lawyer’s capabilities, so further research is required in order to make a well-informed decision. 

Check out online reviews 

If none of the people you’ve asked knows of a good legal service that can help you out, you can take your search online. A quick search on Google will provide you with a long list of legal services in your area that you can choose from. The next step is deciding which of these lawyers and companies are worth considering. 

Once again, the internet provides the answer. Since you don’t want to waste your time calling every single one of the lawyers you find online, you can check out the reviews they got from previous clients to form an opinion. Obviously, you’ll want to look for lawyers and companies that have mostly positive reviews, as that ensures reliability and a higher level of service. But watch out for fake reviews that might mislead you. Not everything that’s written on the internet is true, so try to take everything with a grain of salt. 

Consider your budget

Getting legal help comes at a price, so you have to take your financial means into consideration when performing your search. The costs will vary from one lawyer/company to another depending on a variety of factors such as location, the size and reputation of the company, lawyers’ ability and experience, and so on.  

Keep in mind that if you’re on a tight budget, there are a few ways to get the legal help you need for cheaper or even for free. You can take advantage of services such as Legal Expert which provide free legal advice and legal help on a no win no fee basis, or you can consult government websites and see if you qualify for getting free legal aid. Make sure you explore these options as well, as they can help you get the support you require without leaving a hole in your budget. 

Research the law firm’s website 

Once you’ve narrowed down your list and found a few lawyers or companies that seem to be a good fit for you, you should take the time to consult more in-depth research on each one of them. The best way to do that is by visiting their websites and learning more about the services they provide, their track record, their fees, and all other details that are relevant to your situation. 

After you’ve completed your research, you can call them to talk about your situation and ask questions in case you need further clarifications. It’s also wise to book a meeting with them so you can have a face-to-face conversation and discuss your case in greater detail.  

Finding legal help can often be a time-consuming and complicated endeavor, and it’s not something to be taken lightly, given that legal matters can have a direct impact on your wellbeing. Taking the steps that we’ve mentioned above can make the process a lot smoother for you and ensure you find a professional that is right for you.

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How to make an injury compensation claim if you had an accident

How to make an injury compensation claim if you had an accident

Being injured after an accident can have severe physical and psychological consequences. Compensation claims can help you cover the expenses of damages done to your vehicle and your health. The whole process can be draining, especially if it involves more than two parties, and you might not win if you’re not providing all the evidence or following the legal steps. Therefore, here are some important details about making an injury claim if you’ve suffered any damages.

Identify the type of the accident

Your compensation claim will depend on the type of accident you’ve had. It’s important to identify how it happened and gather all the information before calling a personal injury advisor and the  insurance provider. Therefore, here are some common examples of accidents:

Road traffic accidents. You can get compensation if you’ve been injured as a driver, passenger or pedestrian. The eligible vehicles are cars, buses, bicycles, and motorcycles.Work accidents. These involve your employer and insurance company because, in the UK, business owners are legally responsible for the safety of their employees.Accidents in public spaces. They can occur when the public pavement causes an injury, you got bit by a dog or if an item from the supermarket fell on you.Slips, trips, falls.

Gather proof

The next thing you need to do is gather any information possible to continue filing for a compensation claim. That means:

Taking photographs, videos and any other physical proof you can find.Keeping all medical records, including calls, lab results and prescriptions.Identifying any witnesses that were present at the moment of the injury and recording their observation as soon as possible. After that, ask for their contact information to get in touch whenever it’s needed for your claim.

If the accident occurred in a public space and security cameras were around, you could request the footage. Anyone has the right to ask for it; all you need to do is identify the shops or stores around and ask managers for the footage that you’ll get within 30 calendar days of making the request. Or, if you’re not sure you’ll be successful in obtaining the footage, your solicitor can do it for you.

Every piece of information will help you have a successful case. Before that, you need to be eligible for compensation, meaning that the injury you’ve suffered occurred because of outer factors and was caused by someone’s negligence.

Look for personal injury solicitors

After you have the information needed, you can get in touch with the advisors from accidentclaimsadvice.org.uk and start the claiming process. These professional solicitors will assist you if you’ve suffered any form of personal injury and are looking for compensation. You can benefit from a free consultation on the phone to address your worries and questions, and they will provide legal advice and eventually help you overcome this challenge. Other benefits of having an advisor are:

Professionalism through the whole claiming processNegotiation skills that are needed when demanding the right compensationLegal coverage, because it’s difficult to win your claim if you’re against a stronger opponent

If you’re wondering how much is the compensation, you should know that it depends on the severity of your injury. The solicitors can provide a compensation calculator to get an idea of how much you deserve to get. You can estimate the amount of money you can get according to the damaged body part and the injury state. For example, for a moderate ankle injury that occurred when you slipped in a public place you can get up to £13,740. Of course, the amount of the compensation depends from one case to another; therefore, you need to call an advisor and see exactly what are your chances of winning the case.

The components of a personal injury claim

Injury claims have two fundamental components: the duty of care and its breach. The first one refers to the idea that someone has been careless and that behaviour led to a situation that caused you an injury. The second one means that the duty of care has been broken. For example, your employer’s duty of care was to provide a safe environment for work, protection gear, and training to avoid injuries. If they didn’t do any of this, they breached their duty. Therefore, they owe you compensation.

No Win No Fee claim

Suppose you’ve never worked with a compensation claim advisor. In that case, you should know that most of them offer a No Win No Fee service to help everyone get legal representation, regardless of the claiming situation. This contract between you and your solicitor guarantees that you’ll pay your advisor only if your case is successful and you’re getting your compensation. Otherwise, in case of losing, you won’t have to pay any fees.

The percentage you’ll be paying your solicitor if the case is won is called the “success fee”, and it’s decided before starting the actual process of claiming. There are many benefits to this service, for example:

It protects your personal interestsIt helps you avoid a stressful process so you can focus on your well-beingYou can make a claim being supported by professionals who are only interested in winning the case

Insurance policies

If you’ve suffered an accident and your vehicle has been damaged, you need to check your insurance policy to see if they include any legal expenses category. Different insurances cover specific situations, so you need to check if you can do something to cut some expenses before the compensation process succeeds. If you’re not insured, you have the option of an “after-the-event” service.

Final thoughts

In order to get a compensation claim, you need to prove that you’ve been injured and it was someone else’s fault. Gather and keep all possible evidence and contact a professional advisor to guide you in the process of making a claim. Meanwhile, focus on your physical and psychological health and make sure you’re properly taking care of yourself.

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Is it normal to forget the day?

Is it normal to forget the day?

I was sitting comfortably in my reading chair one morning, my cat Fanny on my lap, my phone off. At around 10:35, I suddenly jumped up, toppling Fanny. It had occurred to me that it was Friday and that a Zoom call with my mother was scheduled for 9:30 and online Scrabble with my friend Sandie for 10.

“I forgot what day it is!” I apologized to my siblings and Sandie. It was too late for the Zoom call, but Sandie graciously offered to play Scrabble then. During her turns, I googled, “Is forgetting what day it is a sign of impending dementia?”

It’s no small matter when your mother is suffering with dementia and you wonder whether you’re destined for the same fate.

Fortunately, I found reassurance. “Once in a while, we all forget what day of the week it is, but we usually remember or figure it out quickly,” says Johns Hopkins Medicine. “[I]t’s common for a person to briefly forget which day it is,” echoes the Caregiver Connection.

Whew! Of course it’s not guaranteed that I’ll be spared from dementia, but at least I might not have to worry yet.

I suspect that most “young olds,” as some researchers have classified those of us between 65 and 74, worry about memory changes even if they don’t have a parent with dementia.

Maybe you too want to tamp down the fears. Here are some questions I looked into after that recent memory lapse. The answers came from web pages of the National Institute of health, the Alzheimer’s Association, the Mayo Clinic, and Harvard Medical School.

Is dementia hereditary?

An umbrella term for various types of cognitive impairment including Alzheimer’s disease, dementia has multiple risk factors, one of which is genetics. Not all causes of dementia are known. Possessing certain gene variants can increase your risk but does not guarantee that you will develop dementia. The genes’ interaction with certain environmental and social factors is also involved. 

How do you tell normal memory glitches from impending dementia?

It’s normal for aging people to occasionally forget appointments and names and to misplace items. Memory problems that impede everyday functioning are more problematic. Examples of everyday functioning include conversing, using the phone, finding your way home, following recipes and directions, recognizing close friends and relatives, and taking care of your health and hygiene. 

Is there anything you can do about prevention anyhow?

You cannot do anything about age, the greatest known risk factor, or your genes. Researchers have not yet identified lifestyle factors that will definitely prevent dementia, but findings about exercise, blood pressure control, and mental activity are promising. Treatment for mild cognitive decline is limited. Drugs that slow the progression of memory loss are intended for moderate to severe cognitive impairment.

Should I be tested if a parent or a sibling has dementia?

Tests can show whether you have inherited the related gene variants but not your likelihood of developing dementia. You may want to participate in a research study that involves testing, but genetic counselors currently do not recommend routine genetic testing. In a statement, the Alzheimer’s Association “cautions against routine genetic testing … until an individual has received proper counseling and understands the information necessary to make an informed decision, including the social and economic factors that could be impacted by having this genetic information.”

Would I want to know that I carry a “dementia gene”? Since possessing the gene doesn’t necessarily forecast dementia, what would be the point of knowing? Better to focus on the present, which is all any of us has for certain. 

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