Relationship neglect: Are you too a victim of this contagiously spreading ailment?
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All relationships are uniquely different depending on one’s nature. Understanding love language and your partner’s attachment style is exceptionally significant as it makes a relationship a liability or an asset. When different perspectives meet, they deal with conflicts. Their attitude towards sex and the ability to communicate differ like the geographical poles of the earth. You are independent while your partner is dependent, you are liberal, while your partner is conservative, you are open-minded. In contrast, your partner is narrow-minded, you want to try 250+ different sex positions, whereas your partner isn’t that much interested in bed scenes.
Everyone becomes attracted and attached to the opposite or the same gender, and there’s no escaping it. Effective communication saves relationships, don’t be offensive, rather understand each other’s perspective than personally attacking, fulminating, or blaming each other.
Relationships vary in various forms like anxious, avoidant, and secured. An anxious relationship worries a lot about the significant partner’s attention, spending enough time keeping a check on their partner, the neediness when they are not around, extremely possessive nature, and even taking everything they say personally. An anxious relationship also leads to psycho-behaviors sometimes.
In an avoidant relationship, you struggle with sharing your feelings with your partner because of an increased value towards independence than relationship. Blaming one another when things are not happening right, always looking for moments to irritate each other and putting each other down become a daily part of the relationship.
On the other hand, secure relationships are like a breath of fresh air, ideal, what everyone craves. One needs not to worry too much nor too little; it’s just a perfect balance between caring enough and feeling loved. Secured relationships share comfort and intimacy without stressing about insecurities. Such partners are always ready for something new to maintain the freshness in their relationship, whether its planning vacation or trying 250+ different sex positions.
● ARE OUR EXPECTATIONS FROM A PARTNER AND THE RELATIONSHIPS SOMETIMES UNREALISTIC?
● WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP LAST LONG?
● WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS ACQUIRE INTENSE MENTAL ENERGY?
● WHAT WENT WRONG THAT LED TO PARTING WAYS?
Such Questions Strike In Each One Of Us’s Mind A Million Times When We Are In A Relationship! But What It Takes To Be In A Relationship Is What We Often Inconsiderate Being In The Relationship And Realize When It’s Too Late….
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Human beings crave a sense of belonging, either towards their family, friends, or spouse. When we attach to someone, the influence of one on the other regulates each other’s natural states and, even more importantly, each other’s psychological and emotional well-being. If your partner doesn’t meet your expectations, it results in a chronic sense of disquiet and constant tension, leading to chronic consequences for your emotional well-being and even physical health.
Foundation of any relationship lies in these five alphabets and are often taken for granted. It takes time to grow faith in a relationship and discover the perks that one looks for. An excellent trust relationship creates more opportunities, more interaction, and less friction.
The building block of a relationship lies in the trust and the amount of care we give back to others. To like is not always to love and to love isn’t always to still; both are two different things. When we like a flower, we like it, but when we love that flower, we water it daily. Behaviors such as keeping commitments, extending trust, talking straight create transparency.
The view towards intimacy and togetherness varies for everyone. Some see at sex as a sacred connect, while for others, it’s merely pleasure. Either way, if such companions with differences in chemistry come together, it leads to chaos, sometimes weird expectations from the partner and the relationship aren’t met. Whether its surprising their respective partner in bed or trying 250+ different sex positions, such partners always welcome anything new when it comes to expanding dimensions of love.
Problems related to relationships are excruciating, touching upon the innermost core of people’s lives. Each case is unique and personal, and each stems from countless possible root causes. Relationships need utmost care, respect, patience, and love to blossom. Cure this ailment timely before it spreads like a virus.
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